MOTHER: actually embodying the self-love, presence and courage that you are trying to teach your kids
Instead of constant mum whilst not actually changing anything, Instead of telling them that they are perfect as they are, that it's ok to disappoint people .. and then modelling the opposite.
LOVE: you feeling deeply met and supported, in A marriage that has plenty of heat in it.
EARN: Work that you love, that doesn't require you to put yourself last to have it.
Instead being more snappy and distracted than you'd like because the best of your patience and energy is used up by 5pm. Instead of making little changes when you know deep down a leap is what's needed.
Instead of two co-parents efficiently managing a household. Instead of the buck always stopping with you, with you managing him the way you manage everything else,
Committing six months of your precious energy, time and money is no small thing. If you fancy a chat before you dive in ... let's do it!
We'll talk through where you are and what you're longing for, and explore whether Heirloom is the right fit to get you there. Sometimes another path might serve you better, and I'll tell you if I think that's the case.
If it's a fit, I'll walk you through what starting looks like. If it's not, you'll leave the call knowing that too. No pressure or obligation either way.
Book a discovery call
no pressure, just a really good conversation exploring what's possible.
What becomes possible
"But it was not long before shifts started to be felt — the questions I asked myself started to be more optimistic ones and less limiting, my reimagined desires started to feel tangible and not whimsical, and clarity started to emerge around what I needed to do to fuel me to sustain the life I wanted.
Now six months into our journey and I feel nothing but progress. The challenging ideas she's posed, the space to meander around my thoughts and feelings, and the safety felt with Jess has resulted in my changing how I work, how I value and fuel my creativity, and what sustainable parenting and partnering looks like for me, and there is an increased settledness underlying all things."
— RENEE, MAMA OF TWO, FOUNDER
"I was really reluctant to work with Jess for a number of reasons — how could I fit this in, did I really need it, and what would it really impact — were all questions I contemplated before beginning. And, if I am utterly truthful, I did enter into our work together rather sceptically."
jessica doneley
MaMa OF THREE, FOUNDER of flow
“I do not want to think about how my life
would have continued without Jess."
and a little something extra
enrolments CLOSE ON 16th NOVEMBER, with limited places.
join me before then and receive an additional free coaching session.
$5,555 AUD, or 6 monthly payments of $997
Six-month transformation
What's included:
— A 90-minute kick-off call to map the vision before you start
— Two 60-minute coaching sessions a month, on Zoom
— Unlimited WhatsApp support between every session
— Conversations that go straight to the heart of things.
No judgement, no sugarcoating, and plenty of love.
You want a bespoke, high-touch program with a coach who's walked a similar path, not another framework to file away.
You've built a life that looks good from the outside, but on the inside feels frenetic, exhausting or just not quite you.
You understand your patterns intellectually — now you want to transform them at the level of your body, soul and identity
You're in the right place if:
You want the shift to reach your work, your relationship, and your mothering — not just the part that's easiest to talk about.
You learned early to be the strong one for everyone else, and you're ready to stop making that the whole of who you are.
Not so great for you if ...
You want to keep talking about your patterns, without actually putting in the reps to change them
You're not ready for six months of direct feedback and being (lovingly) challenged
You're looking for someone to fix it for you, rather than guide you and light the path as you do the work
I had left my job and was feeling really uncertain and anxious about what to pursue in the next season of my career and family life.
Jess has a canny ability to hear the core of an issue in what might seem like a throw away line and helped me see patterns in my behaviour and thinking. She helped me understand hidden underlying fears and clarify the values with which I wanted to assess career options.
Jess's warmth and empathy is coupled with an astuteness and clarity in her observations and reflections. She adeptly draws on a variety of theoretical perspectives but more profoundly taps into the intangible... which is what your soul, energy and intuition are telling you. Highly recommend.
In their own words
Jess has a canny ability to hear the core of an issue in what might seem like a throwaway line.
She taps into what your soul, energy and intuition are telling you
TESS PALMER
MAMA OF three, INVESTOR RELATIONS DIRECTOR
"I have rewritten the 'Type-A', 'perfectionist' and 'constant stressor' labels that I gave myself in my teens and clung to for decades"
I grew up in an abusive home, and adapted by becoming "perfect" — the classic Good Girl who took my excellent grades into a corporate lawyer role that was so ill-suited, I broke out in a rash every Sunday evening.
I was chronically anxious and suffered from eating disorders and OCD ... and worst of all, I believed that was just how I was wired. I spent years seeing psychologists and therapists (where I became informed BUT NOT TRANSFORMED) ...
The breakthrough came when I realised I couldn’t think my way out of patterns that lived far deeper than my thoughts. I needed to work with my body, my intuition and the parts of me that had learned to adapt and protect themselves long before I could understand why.
That’s when things began to actually change.
As I alchemised the impact of my childhood, my intuition became my guiding force.
I began to actually live FROM my body not just in her — giving me the inner resources to make a series of brave choices that eventually led me here.
Today I’m Mama to two amazing girls, modelling the self-love, joy and unconditional love I never witnessed as a child and building two businesses and a big beautiful life in partnership with my soul mate (who, I assure you, did NOT feel like my soul mate at many times along this path).
I retrained as a coach back in 2013 and since then I've been supporting women to live a life true to their soul instead of their conditioning and their mother’s voice.
i've been there
less mind, more body & soul = freedom
Hi, I'm Jess. Former people-pleasing, overthinking lawyer... turned joyful mama of two and ambitious biz owner
Jess' approach is nothing I have ever experienced before. Although some aspects were wildly outside of my comfort zone at first (read: body-led movement), I embraced it all and I am so happy I did.
Jess has supported me, challenged me and patiently taught me ways to shift my mindset and undo habitual patterns, allowing me to expand in ways I never thought possible.
The biggest change for me is tangibly living a life of freedom, joy and ease. I love Jess' coaching style, her energy and her wisdom. And yes, I now also love body-led movement!
Life, transformed
"I was overworked, pleasing others, trying to control everything and lived like I was on the Amazing Race."
founder of the therapy collective
Here's what awaits you ...
In this 90-min session, you'll leave with clarity on what you truly want — not what you've been taught to want, or what you think you can get — but what you deeply yearn for a tangible action plan with clear next steps.
KICK-OFF VISION-MAPPING CALL
Two X 60 minute powerful, practical coaching sessions EACH month via zoom, where we unravel your conditioning, rewire your thinking patterns and ground you deeply in your body and soul. You'll receive practical tools to work with and implement between sessions.
DEEP DIVE SESSIONS
You have access to unlimited support via whatsapp between sessions so you feel deeply supported and stay accountable. Clients have said that having a professional guide in their corner 24/7 is an absolute game changer.
DAILY SUPPORT
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Two months in the most common thing I hear from my clients is ... I wish I'd done this sooner!
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